Friday, 30 March 2012

The Somebodies VS The Nobodies



Twitter has been just what the doctor ordered for dying and up coming celebs around the world. The idea of 140 characters to explain whatever you're doing seems to have taken off in the past 4 years like a rocket. Millions of people are now using twitter and I've found that its a lot more interesting when celebrities live their lives through twitter rather than the general public, but why is that? We all know nothing beats a good public celebrity feud and we all lap it up, but when it’s two people arguing that we know from work, school or university we just find it mundane and irritating and we find it whiny and annoying when our friends complain about boyfriends or how bad their lives are over Twitter or Facebook.

In my generation Y knowledge of social networking sites, I feel as though 99% of people posting statuses or various things about their life want to be noticed and are mainly doing it for attention or gratification. As the saying goes "everybody wants to be somebody" (I'm not actually sure if that's a saying, but moving along.) What I mean by this is people obviously idolise the celebrities they 'like' or 'follow' they post meaningless updates and or photos about themselves and people revere that and think if they post something similar they'll have millions of followers or thousands of people commenting on what they post. Wrong. I feel as though it is fun when people post various updates about things in their life but when people take it overboard its not enjoyable for anyone. I think its common fact that no one cares if you're a nobody. Plain and simple. You can write as much as you like about yourself on twitter and try to get people to like you but the chances of you actually becoming famous from that is next to nil.
But in the world of being a celebrity, the likes of Kim Kardashian (who has basically done nothing for humanity but is somehow amazingly rich and famous) they can post “dyed my hair! xox” and one million people will comment or ‘retweet’ and be like “OMG, ur so beutful Kim! Xoxoxo” (misspelled word intended) a thousand times over, yet if I were to tweet about dying my hair, I’d have one person be like “cool story.” 

Pictured: Kim Kardashian with a pouty photo from her twitter page.

Oh what a brilliant life she must have, so much money for doing so little. How do I get this job?

So, why do we find celebrities so much more exciting than our own friends?
Is it a form of escapism?
Do we all just hate our lives that much that we find interest in people above us?

I think focusing on other peoples lives makes us feel better about our own, especially celebrity divorces or celebrity mishaps, we love it because it makes us feel normal in comparison, public twitter fights make us feel as though these big celebrities with millions of money and fans still can get cellulite or can still have bad days, like us and them living publicly through twitter is like having them as your friend or making you feel like you have a connection with these people you’ve never met and will probably never meet in a social manner.
Social media for celebrities is probably the best business tool they could ever have. Celebrities have reinvented themselves because of the likes of Twitter and they know that. So whether we like it or not we will continue to see the rise of celebrities and their updates throughout our lives, as well as our boring Twitter and Facebook friends as well... sigh.
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